Boundaries
You Are Not Valued, You Are Just Too Available
- By Joshua Otim
- . October 30, 2025
Being nice is good but not always best. If you are a the reliable person in that click or workplace, think twice. When you always
Only You Can Truly Look Out for Yourself
- By Joshua Otim
- . October 22, 2025
Life teaches a simple lesson as we grow older. No one will protect your peace or fight your battles the way you can. People may
Why Dropping In Unannounced Could Be Ruining Your Social Life
- By Joshua Otim
- . October 21, 2025
You know that friend who just shows up at your door like they live there? Yes, the one who thinks “surprise visit” is a compliment.
Saying No Without Guilt: The Skill Every Adult Needs (But No One Taught Us)
- By Joshua Otim
- . July 17, 2025
Have you ever said yes when deep down you wanted to say no? Maybe you agreed to a date you were not excited about, or