“Women Who Cannot Keep a Man Should Avoid Being Pregnant,” Pastor Sempa Thinks

In a world where parenting is often seen as a shared responsibility, the dynamics of child support and parental accountability continue to spark debates.

Recently, a post on X (formerly Twitter) by Misheline (@Mutuzo_M) sparked heated discussions online.

The message was clear, blunt, and unapologetic: “A reminder to the deadbeats that promised to do better; your kid is going back to school in about two weeks, send school fees!”

Mutuzo’s post spoke to many as It highlighted the reality of parents who neglect their financial obligations, leaving one party, often the mothers, to carry the burden alone.

Her post was a clear demand for accountability, urging deadbeat fathers who promised to do better to keep their promises and take care of their children.

However, this seemingly straightforward call for action got a strong and heated response from Pastor Martin Sempa (@martinssempa), who is no stranger to controversy.

Pastor Sempa took the opportunity to address what he perceives as a deeper societal issue.

He criticized women who, in his view, fail to sustain stable relationships with men yet choose to have children with them.

“You got these feminists who are able to open their legs and get pregnant but they are unable to keep a good man,” he wrote.

In his response, Pastor Sempa claimed that some women weaponize their children and child support, creating financial and emotional strain on men.

“Some women have turned this into a commercial industry. It is a pathetic way of making money. In one moment they rant men are trash in the next moment they moan the man has not sent me school fees,” he wrote.

He further argued that women who cannot keep a man should avoid pregnancy altogether, suggesting that they rely on contraception instead.

For him, the focus should be on avoiding situations where children are brought into unstable environments.

He concluded by saying that women who cannot stay in relationships should only have casual sex and not involve the birth of children.

“Women who cannot keep a man have no business becoming pregnant with that man. Let them just get banged up and move on to the next man who can temporarily put up with their toxic selves!,” he wrote.

This debate raises important questions.

Should the focus be on making parents take care of their children, or should it also look at the choices people make before becoming parents?

How can society help ensure children are not caught in the middle of adult conflicts.

Boom!

You got these feminists who are able to open their legs and get pregnant but they are unable to keep a good man.

They now look at weaponizing the baby and the support towards the child and create both animosity and drain the finances of the man.

I think women who can't… https://t.co/0FtF4tFWsL

— Martin Ssempa (@martinssempa) January 14, 2025